Why do we
always think of the “good times” in the past tense? Is there any reason living
today can’t be as relevant?
I have
always looked backwards to find the days of enjoyment and pleasure. Everyone
can relate to a period when we wished time could stand still, savor the
moment forever and never let go. That feeling
of total contentment with our life, our place in time and our peaceful surroundings in
powerful harmony.
For me, my
own life has strangely reached this echelon moment. I know how blessed I am and
how lucky I feel to be exactly where I am- today. Not yesterday, or 30 years ago- today.
My wife was unexpectedly
laid-off in June. Too make a long story short, despite the stress, frustration,
having to change our lifestyle, and not having enough money to live on- we’ve
never been happier together!
Go figure!
With both of
us working the stress was more than we realized. My wife is a nurse, she was on
her feet a lot, constantly up and down the hallways, lifting and turning
patients. She carried a great disposition to encourage her patients- despite
her stress and sometimes dealing with unappreciative patients and family
members. Nursing is a tough job. I couldn’t do it!
Our
adjustment during this period has put us closer together and despite working
nearly 67 years together at the same
facility, we are actually experiencing the “good times” now.
Her
experience has made us realize a job isn’t
everything. Life is a bigger theater
in the quest for doing something meaningful. What really matters isn’t how rich
you are; but rather, how rich you live! Today is all we are guaranteed.
When your darkest moment comes, true
relationships are all that matters.
Every day, I
look forward to arriving home knowing my wife is waiting for me. I wonder what
has transpired, inspired or motivated her day.
I am blessed to have her and for the first time in my life hoping the “good
times” never end!
Until We Meet Again,
Jim Carver
Author: The Legacy of David A. Wells- The Lexington High School
“Band of Gold”
Something Meaningful that Matters!
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